How to Stay Safe While Finding Your Match

Keep Your Account Details Private
Your username and password are strictly confidential. Remember — no one from Boarders Matrimony will ever ask for your login details.

Verify and Cross-Check Take time to meet your prospective match and their family in person. Don’t hesitate to do background checks and gather references before making any big decisions.

Meet in Public Places Always arrange your meetings in safe, public locations. Inform a friend or family member about where you’re going and who you’re meeting.

Don’t Share Money

No matter how genuine someone may seem, never send money or offer financial assistance to anyone you connect with on the platform.
 

How to Spot an Online Fraudster – Stay Alert on Boarders Matrimony

While most members are genuine, it's important to stay aware and watch for red flags. Here are signs that someone may not be who they say they are:

They Avoid Showing Their Real Identity

They refuse to come on video calls or delay meeting you in person — often making excuses.

They Ask for Money

They might request financial help, often using emotional stories or emergencies to pressure you.

They Send “Gifts” and Ask You to Pay for Customs

A common scam: they say they've sent you a gift, and then someone posing as a customs officer asks you to pay a fee for delivery.

They Request Sensitive Financial Info

They may try to get your email login, bank account details, or credit card number. Never share such information.

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If Something Feels Off, It Probably Is.

Trust your instincts. Always verify, take your time, and report any suspicious behavior to Boarders Matrimony support immediately.

Manage Your Information – You're in Control on Boarders Matrimony

Your privacy matters. On Boarders Matrimony, you decide what to share and with whom. Here's how you can manage your profile information:

- Control Who Sees Your Photos
You can choose to:
1 - Show your photos only to selected members
2 - Allow viewing after approval
3 - Or keep them completely hidden — it's all up to you.

Decide Who Can View Your Phone Number
You have full control over your contact visibility. You can choose to:
1- Share your number only with members who’ve contacted you or shown mutual interest
2 - Or, make it visible only to Premium Members from your community